No, I totally agree with you. I just wanted that little extra traction. I got it and sure as hell paid for it too... ouch. I'm still walking funny after that one.
What I think it boils down to is that I'm not able to get the biggest bang for the buck that I spent. Just because I always have that thought of being dragged off the trail and having to pay some one (probably your cousin) to clean up my mess. Like I said, I have no regrets as they do what I want them to. I just need to always keep in mind why I bought them and know that I do have limitations with lockers on an IFS set up.
I'll probably still go "solid" in a few years from now. I don't want a crazy rock crawler, but I do want to get a little funky every now and again. With out giving Mr. Ryan a big head! I would like to get my taco about as capable as his Jeep.
Great forum topic, I like to read comments and opinions on things like this. Hopefully you'll get some more postings to this.